Fireproof - 2008

Last night I watched Fireproof for the first time with Sarah and Laura. Mom and Dad were there too but had seen it in the theater when it first came out.

From what I'd heard it was not the best movie for younger ones because of the up close marital conflicts it shows. I agree and think the viewer should be old enough to understand and process what is happening. There were a few things that stood out to me. Unlike their other movie, Facing the Giants, when Caleb's heart changed it wasn't an instant turnaround and living happily ever after. It was still hard, he had to continue to work and have faith even though it seemed hopeless.

I like the task presented of studying his wife, her like/dislikes and her interests, to get to know her more. It's a continual process that doesn't end at the wedding but lasts the whole marriage. This should be applied to other relationships such as parents and siblings as well.

Another good message from the movie is where your time and money are is where your heart is.


Quick review:

FIREPROOF, from the same team that made the 2006 hit FACING THE GIANTS, is a Christian relationship drama with a very strong message. The film stars Kirk Cameron of the classic television series... Fireproof, is a Christian relationship drama with a very strong message. The film stars Kirk Cameron as Captain Caleb Holt, a fireman whose fearlessness is limited to his work. At home with his wife of seven years, Caleb shows little of the bravery he displays on the job, and has a failing marriage as a result. Fighting over every little thing, Caleb and his wife, Catherine, are on the verge of signing divorce papers when Caleb's father and coworkers urge him to approach his marriage in the same way he fights vicious flames. When Caleb's father gives him the "Love Dare," a 40-day guide to religiously motivated marriage help, Caleb begins a difficult journey to reclaim his wife, and in the process, his faith in God. With several action-packed scenes, FIREPROOF uses fire metaphors in its exploration of marriage. The film offers an alternative to the common romantic comedy and, some might argue, a more multidimensional view of romance. The film examines both the ups and inevitable downs of married life, offering faith as a prescription for saving what may at first glance appear to have already failed.